Lesson 4. Transformation tools

In this lesson you will learn to identify concepts that will guide you in managing your child’s behavior. You will be able to:

  • Identify and describe specific behavior management concepts.
  • Use examples of these concepts.
  • Plan a strategy for using these concepts in your day-to-day parenting.
  • Practice techniques that are most helpful and effective for you and your child.

1-Introduction

2-No excuse for abuse / Direct statements / Disconnect

3-Stop the show / Give consequences / Be an empowered parent

4-Use consequences to get honesty / Be clear about your values / Family as a business

5-Identify thinking errors and excuses / Use single-issue focus / Use selective attention

6-Redirect interest / Choose your fights carefully / Cueing

7-Strategic recognition and affection / Harmless humor / Esteem

8-Give basic direction / Demand and expect compliance / Transition time

9-Responsible love and concern / Replacement and reciprocity / Don’t hold your breath

10-Act as if… / Be a role model / Realization

11-What to do Next

Lesson 4 Workbook